White trans-male , queer, faggy, vegan, anarcho-feminist
I try pretty hard to be anonymous on here, and it's where I get all of my trans stuff out so I don't bore everyone I know in real life about it on a daily basis. If you have an inkling that you might know me in real life I would really appreciate that you don't read this blog, or contact me before hand to check if I'd be ok with it.
My blog is mostly made up of trans related stuff, random late night drunken updates, total over-sharing of my life, the odd bit of food p0rn and the occasional re-blog of something I find interesting.
I also post about my love for my cheeeap-ass surgeon (£2000 wtf!) and pictures of my chest so don't follow me if you don't want to see that. You can read everything I wrote about surgery and see all of my pictures here.
I am super into trans health care and supporting other people medically. I think self-medicating can be a radical act and it's empowering to take control of your own health care. It pisses me off that cisgender people are the gate-keepers to potentially life saving health care for trans people. Inbox me if you you want advice on self-medicating.
I always welcome call-outs.
pansy-boyAnonymous asked: why do you hate cis people?
Had a pretty bad night with a cis guy last night who I would have previously thought of as a friend and someone I wanted to hook up with
Obviously I don’t hate all cis people but when you have incidents like this I find it good to be able to verbalise my sadness like this
I feel so beyond bad today
Oops
Hopefully some of them won’t show cos queers are flakey as fuck
really want to talk to my ex girlfriend and see how she’s doing but I don’t want to step over any boundaries :(
Speaking to some cute boy on grinder that is lonely in bed and wanting to spoon
As if I will ever be brave enough to meet anyone off of there :(
deepheatandabsynthe replied to your post: Quite a full on day at college
hang in there dude, I hope it gets easier
Thanks mate :)
ryantigerstripe replied to your post: Quite a full on day at college
Your teacher sounds awesome!
yeah she is pretty great, couldn’t have asked for better in my first stealth experience
so here is what happens to me when we do the ‘urinals’ vs ‘no urinals’ bathroom setup. it becomes an opportunity to out me, make assumptions about my genitals, essentialize my gender according to my birth sex, and push me into the men’s room. this is actually what happens to me when we do this. let’s not do this, ok? spread the word.
Somedays I think the real solution is to have two restrooms. One is a large communal facility clearly labeled “Only use this one if you are cool sharing the facility with whoever else needs to go” and the other is a completely private one-person affair labeled “Or use this to not have to deal with anybody else, but the line may be longer.”
personally, i’m into this idea. i could make my choice based on whatever factors played into safety: time of day, how busy it was, what kind of space it is, how many other women are around, ect. i can’t speak for others, but that would work for me.
thank you for this drawing!
I have had issues a few times at my local Anarchist bar with this set up
I’ll be waiting in line and the with urinal toilet will be free, and someone will be like hey the urinal one is free go use it! and I will be like umm… and the person is always ohhhh I see it’s like that ok
And it sucks.
So yes, from a trans male perspective it sucks too.
(via faunils)
-Bored in morning class so went on grindr
-Some guy wanted to come into college to fuck me in the toilets, whatt.
-Arranged a hook-up next week in a nearby city, came out to the guy as trans, he just said why would it be a problem; you are stunning!
-We were learning about genetics and chromosomes and my teacher (who knows I am trans) kept almost saying gender and then correcting herself to say sex when talking about stuff
-one girl was like what about hermaphrodites
-had an interesting discussion with my teacher after class and informed her about intersex being a better word to use and she said she would correct people in the future as it does come up a lot. She asked for some feedback and we then had a really good conversation about sex vs. gender terminology. my teacher is super right on.
-then at lunch I told my pals about breaking up with my girlfriend and they were nice about it. I talked about wanting different things and kids came up, it was super weird how they were assuming that we could just have them without thinking about it like you know procreate. Super weird even though I am stealth to them
-after lunch people were talking about a girl in the other class to us, saying she had a low voice and how they COULD SWEAR SHE’S A TRANSSEXUAL and started talking shit about her. I felt really fucking awkward and I just wanted to be like “Well I’m a transsexual, what do you make of that?”, but obviously I couldn’t cos of safety but urghh gross I’m glad I haven’t come out to them and I’m never going to do.
Need to stay strong and not be mopey about break up :(
Words that are cissexist:
- natal girl/boy
- woman-born-woman/man-born-man
Add your own
Genetic (wo)man
Natural(-born) (wo)man
Normal/regular (wo)man
Biological (fe)male
(Fe)male bodied
(via faunils)
Anonymous asked: I'll come off anon if you won't judge me. I might be a bit hyped up on cough syrup at the mo and I promise I don't know you.
go on then ;)