sorry, what is the big deal about people saying this? what if someone does only date women and people who transitioned?
I agree with this. Your sexual attraction is not a political statement, neither is it a choice.
I also take issue with some of the stuff in this article about queer women who only date other women and trans men. Firstly, why is it assumed that trans women are excluded from that? And who are you to say that because someone doesn’t date cis men that therefore means they are negating my gender? We can date who we want, and I think it is pretty rude to assume how someone views their partners gender.
All my friends are queer and my partners are too. I have absolutely zero interest in dating cis straighties or spending time with them. I want to be with queer women, all the queer women I’ve been with date cis men too anyways. No interest in being part of the hetero-patriarchy.